Becoming What You Want America to Become

What do you wish was happening in America right now? How do you want Americans to handle the conflicts and disagreements that will surely continue to arise? Are you waiting for the world to change? Waiting for the world to change to make you feel safe? How can the world be different if you are not different?

If this country needs critical thinking, are you a critical thinker? If this country needs understanding, are you listening and understanding those you find hard to comprehend? If this country needs love, are you loving your neighbor?

You have a unique gift. You have a part. Are you exploring what that might be? Are you acting on what you know is the right thing? It’s not the same for everyone. It’s not necessarily public or loud. But it is in there. Take some quiet time. Listen. Move with the mystery that makes mountains rise up, that causes flowers to bloom and tears of compassion and joy to flow for our fellow human.

Your life is the greatest gift you can offer the world. In reality, it’s all you have to give. How  might you live to encourage the expression of your gift? This is what America is about, becoming who you are, freedom to discover and be, who you are. The American dream is about opportunity, no matter from where you come. It’s about innovation, creativity and the environment to explore all you can be.

Live the American dream. Be the change America needs.

How to Move America Forward

Easy as apple pie. A no brainer. It’s a simple action we all can take. It takes some willingness to do some google research, reading some political platforms and watching carefully if your representatives are voting in a way that matches the promises.  Know what you want and hold your representatives to that standard. Talk. To. Your. Neighbors. Talk to people in other districts, respectfully and with a willingness to hear how others see issues. Have a conversation.

This change of focus is 180 degrees. A focus away from helplessness and giving our power to others, to one of hope and action, turning toward what is good, what is valued, what is right. Every look back into history shows that eventually good overcomes destruction. In this time of human evolution, we are looking to overcome the insidious dysfunction that may lead to an impending destruction of democracies here and around the world. The dysfunction is in how we talk to each other, how we see each other, how we fall for anything that matches our world view. We need to open our minds, talk to each other and find common ground in our common values.

The nervousness in this country is from a deep knowing that potential evil is loose and an abiding uncertainty we are unable to stop it. Good news, we can stop it. Its what Americans are made of, its what we love best, when good finds its power to keep the world safe. Every blockbuster Hollywood film has this as its theme, the heroine always wins. We can win too.

We have been hoping our representatives had it under control. We thought they could find a way through the gridlock to get something done. Never happened. We can march, protest and make calls until the cows come home, and that is an important part of the process, but the action that will make lasting change is the one that lets your representative know what you want and to see results in congressional actions, to talk to others, broaden the discussion to create solutions.

Values. Morals. Ethics. This is the focus that can bring us together. All people have the same needs and wants, the same desire for clean air, water, food, education, access to healthcare and appropriately used taxes. The question is how to go about accomplishing those goals, finding the balance between unwieldy government overreach, protection of the disenfranchised and protection of the populace from unethical practices.

As I say over and over again, this is not a Republican or Democratic issue. There is a lens from which to find candidates, people that will work together with the opposite party to find solutions based in common values. Remember that solutions are not a one shot deal. It is a process that grows and changes as the country and its people grow and change.

Trump policies could also be the focus that brings various groups together and that is already happening. Find, encourage and vote for candidates that will work as Senator Warren or Senator McCain or any other politicians who want to work for the common good of this country together. That is the lens that will save us all.

Biggest Fake News of All

The one thing that will bring this country down is not Republicans, not Democrats, not power mongers, not CNN or Fox News. The one thing that will make it all fall apart is believing the House of the US of A, is deeply divided.  Too many Americans falling for this lie forced upon us by the storytellers who need the division to keep the story going.

We hear all day, every day about the deep divide, the hatred, the troubles between political parties, friends and family. The racial abyss that can never be crossed. The liberal agenda, the conservative plan to destroy this country. This is the biggest lie ever perpetrated on the American people.

I know, you think I’m nuts. How can I not see what destruction the other guy is trying to wreak in our lives? Actually, the “other guy” is mostly a sought out event uncovered by “journalists” looking for anything ranging from minimal disruptions to horrific devastations. And they can find them every day, but these events are not representative of this nation. Read that again. If it were true, you would see much more about this, close to home and in your own life.

How many people do you think have had your credit card? Thousands? Every time you paid for something, someone had your credit card information.  How many of them stole your identity? For most of us none and for some of those that have it stolen, it was their very own family or friend. This sort of activity is the exception, not the rule. But the media needs you worried, afraid and tuning in to make sure you stay up on all they ways you could be taken out. Your fear and anxiety get you to click and they make money.

You are falling for a media trick even the media has forgotten they are perpetrating on the country. At least I hope they have because otherwise, they are the most despicable of all. I think the media believes they are doing what is right to expose and “inform” but much of the media machine is about generating fear and divisiveness so you’ll keep tuning in.

I’ve written about this before, the turning of the news broadcast from a series of educational facts and events meant to inform about our world, to a money making venture that required large numbers of viewers. What is the result? Fires, wrecks and stories that pit one person against another, often David and Goliath stories where the little guy wins. Stories of corruption and devastation. Luckily, these stories are far and few between. Unfortunately, media then must exaggerate and embellish and talk about whatever story they can, for as long as they can, with whatever “expert” or talking head they can find.

Eventually, Americans become immune, because we can’t take it over and over again. So the media ramps it up, gives emotions to politicians, makes guesses as to what peoples’ intentions are, and suggests scandals at every opportunity.  This has led to the conspiracy theory boom in recent years.  The National Enquirer was a rag we laughed at when we found a copy in Aunt Mildred’s bathroom with hyped conspiracy theories we all knew were too bizarre to be believed.

We all knew no one was crazy enough to believe that garbage… but hmmm… now it seems we’ve got plenty of folks who do. Why? Because it’s become mundane just like the rest of the the “news”. It seems normal. Because media of all kinds portrays it that way.

So glad you read this far, because there is good news. The vast majority of people are good, maybe misinformed, maybe misunderstood (including you and me) but ultimately just want to get along and be safe. The antidote is to actually get to know your neighbor, to relax, breathe and begin to look around at what is in your neighborhood you need to understand better.

Be careful of the biggest lie of all – that we can’t get along – that we can’t understand one another – that we don’t have common goals – because guess what, we do.

Have You Heard About the Left’s Hatred?

It’s widely reported by conservatives who make this stuff up all the time, so, it must be true, yes? Have to keep that divide going or maybe we’ll find a way to talk to each other. And the right is full of hate as well. Everyone hates everyone.

But what if we found we didn’t hate each other? What if it turns out it’s not true? Hate is a big word. An inflammatory word. There may be a small part of the population that is in full hatred mode, but I don’t think it is the majority of folks.

What if we didn’t fall for that characterization?? Believe it without question?

Then, oh-the-horror to politicians that need the divide, maybe we’ll find a way to get along. Maybe we’ll figure out what we want in common.

Then! Maybe we won’t need politicians who look for ways to make themselves and other rich people richer as the main goal in serving this country.

THEN We might boot them out of office.

THEN!! We vote in folks who want to fix problems, not just be right, or in control, or force their narrow agenda. The world might become a better place…

I vote for that.     Literally…  I vote for that.

Change in the Air

There’s something afoot. The wind is rising from a new corner. A fresh air is coming through from parts unknown. Allow yourself to slow down, settle, listen. It is not strident, yelling, worried or fearful. There is a peacefulness surrounding you, in you, always ever present, speaking in soft tones of hope and renewal.

When difficult times rear up, the answer arises as well. An opposite but not equal response. A more powerful riposte speaking through stillness, creativity and an innovation never known before, but obvious in its brilliance.

You have a part in this. Still yourself and open to the space where time and place don’t exist. Lean against a tree, feel the wisdom of the roots deep in the earth and the branches drawing in the light. Allow yourself to set aside everyday thinking tuning to natures steady rhythm of fall and rise, and her persistent cycling in and out of dark to light.

What if? What if there is an answer? What if the answer is different than anything we have thought of before? What if the answer goes against convention? What if we take a new path? What tickles at you? What ideas come to you about how the world might respond to our latest crisis? You can hear the whispers, if you take some time to tune in.

It may be a meditation or prayer you add to the fabric of humanity at the break of dawn or the setting of the sun. It may be listening carefully to those who seem opposite you, looking for connection. It may be action you take in your neighborhood, learning about how to solve hard problems. It may be an act of generosity. It may be in a school, a church, a temple, a campaign or a homeless shelter.

Today is about rising up. A phoenix from the ashes. A joy the world has not known, but is ready to embrace, is at your fingertips and will come from your very hands, head and heart.

Breathe

Listen with an open mind

Rise, bring your energy to the world with love and care

All hands on deck. Everyone turn to. This is a group effort. Survival of the fittest group. Rise up and shine. Lift up and rejoice.

You Are. I Am. We Are. One

 

Christmas in April

I’m listening to Christmas music. I know, it’s April, but I lost all of my iTunes music last November in a crazy action meant to keep my old computer working just a little bit longer. I missed hearing all those happy songs of peace on earth and I really need that right now. In the ensuing months since last autumn, I have learned a great deal about iTunes, computers, googling answers and relying on the kindness of strangers.

Isn’t that how life works? We make mistakes. We do something stupid. We keep making more stupid mistakes and then finally admit our errant ways, hoping someone can dig us out of the hole. We need to do this today more than ever before in my lifetime. We’ve dug quite a hole here.

For example, one mistake (believing media was solid), led to another mistake (if media is corrupt, conspiracy theories must be true), to another mistake (believing an outsider would improve this country), which leads to our current mistake – hiding – because we’re so embarrassed we were taken in by Facebook and Russians, we’re hoping it will all magically get better…. but 8,000 iTunes songs are gone. Vanished. No denying it.

I know, it’s hard. You feel stupid. How could you have sent all those songs to the trash just because you believed they were carefully backed up on your external hard drive? “Warning: This action cannot be undone.” Click. Drag. It all seemed to make sense at the time.

Ok, time to peek open one eye and admit to the mistake. There is no shame in that. In fact, it requires a great deal of courage.

Next, do some research. What exactly do you agree with in this administration? What do you oppose? How would you like your representatives to move forward from here? What do you think will really make the gridlock stop? And then google how to get your iTunes from your external hard drive to your new computer. Smart strangers know some good stuff.

When you have some answers, take some actions. And before you know it, Christmas songs, Rachmaninoff, Justin Timberlake, and Reba McIntyre will be humming away in your happy ears.

 

John Oliver and Gerrymandering

One of the biggest issues for honest politicians to work through, is gerrymandering. John Oliver has a good history detailing the problem, and several bad jokes, but ultimately explains the details well. The link below has Olivers’ show on the topic with one potential solution, but the website, fairvote.org has an idea that may be better.

These are the discussions thinking people need to work through. Ideas are plentiful. Solutions are available. Don’t believe the doubters, they are only afraid. Nothing can change until we change it.

Tell your representatives you want new laws regarding all systemic issues in America including not only gerrymandering but also lobbying, campaign reform, citizens united, net neutrality, internet privacy and corporate welfare and dis-regulation among business and wall street. Make it clear if they cannot repair these issues, you will find a candidate that will.

This is how we put America back together again. From the heart.

http://www.fairvote.org/the_most_important_thing_john_oliver_said_about_gerrymandering_and_the_solution_he_forgot_to_mention

This is Why You Can’t Sleep

In this country, all news sources use fear and sensationalism to get an audience. I listen and watch a wide variety of mediums so I can get a picture of what is being said and how it is being said. They’re all pretty much the same. One horror story after another. Some are worse than others. NPR tends to be one of the best at reporting the facts while remaining calm and thoughtful, but this week, there was unusual fear mongering from normally soft spoken NPR. The doomsday tale was a story about the bird flu in China. There was nothing useful about this story. It held no information that helped me to understand my world better, to improve my life, or enrich my soul. In fact it was a soul sucking story. The main point was this – a devastating epidemic may happen soon, but we just don’t know.

This is why you can’t sleep. Media induced insomnia. NPR interviewed scientists, talked about the past, conjured up potential disasters. All imaginary scenarios based on maybes but scary enough to get your fight or flight system engaged, cortisol and adrenaline coursing through your system.

What is the point of this story? To scare you. To make you feel like you need the news to keep you informed and protected. Click. Scroll. Click. The disturbing part is that there are so many important stories you need to know to protect yourself that are not being aired while they find stuff like the non-existent bird flu maybe-in-our-future epidemic. This is shaping up like Ebola coverage. Remember all that?

Meanwhile, you are desperately trying to talk yourself down – ‘it’ll be okay’, ‘it’s not here now’, ‘I’ll do a google search on how to protect myself from bird flu when I get home’ but in your heart of hearts you feel doomed. This and the dozens of other cautionary tales you heard today will replay in your mind when you are trying to sleep, along with your own worries of the future, regrets of the past and wonderings about the security of our country.

The security of our country is questionable when the actions are so far out of the box, no one knows the consequences. People are overwhelmed just trying to comprehend the actions of this new administration. What we need are journalists detailing those dilemmas and offering information on potential actions and solutions might be found. Story on internet privacy? Give me clues on how I get my privacy back. Story on the dismantling of the EPA or Dept of Education? Tell me where I can go to make a difference. How were changes fought for in the past? What worked? So much news, so few journalists.

Great journalists are out there. Comprehensive news does exist. Look at the ‘marketplace’ of news from many sources. Complain when the media is below standards, demand facts and only facts and give feedback to what you find helpful and what you do not.

Ultimately, we need to breathe, slow down. Change is a golden opportunity to find new paths, better ideas, see problems clearly and discover amazing solutions. It is time to have faith in each other. To buoy people with energy and innovation. Then you can go to sleep knowing the foundations for a better country are underway.

We can change the world.

United Airlines is a Symptom

When the video of the United Airlines passenger, forcibly removed from the aircraft, went viral, it showed how appalled Americans feel at the willingness of the United Continental corporation to treat customers like cattle. The callous words of the CEO added fuel to the fire. This is not the problem in itself, it is a symptom of a world where humans have become devalued by the corporate and political system.

I’m sure the United CEO wishes he had spoken more eloquently. I’m sure he wishes that he had spoken differently, not because what happened was wrong in his eyes, but because it caused a dip in the value of the company’s stock and may affect traveler numbers. But, I’m also sure he’s not too worried because Americans have short memories and feel powerless to stand up for themselves.

It is the sincere wish of United Continental that this fade to the background as quickly as possible. Then they can go on with their policies, the media will move on as it is no longer a shocking story – just every day – and people will continue to be treated badly without any recourse. Other stories are surfacing but it is only a matter of time before this all just goes away.

There is a law that caps how much a passenger can be compensated but the airlines are not required to go that limit. United opted not to offer the max by less than half. If you have a compelling reason to stay on the plane, it doesn’t matter as flight crews do not have a say in that decision. Hmmm, I wonder how those laws and regulations came about? Legislatures. That’s how that came about. You have little power, unless, you take it. How to do that?

Pay attention to your representatives actions and votes. Do they lean toward corporation rights or consumer rights? for workers rights? family rights? or human rights? How they vote is how they will take care of you. You can’t go by what they say. Politicians know how to say what you want to hear, but then vote very differently. People in this country are treated pretty shabbily as we become smaller and smaller cogs in the big business machine without unions or politicians who have our back.

See what your representatives do, not what they say and take action. Let them know they are replaceable. That will get their attention.

Be a voice for bringing humanity back to America.

http://www.latimes.com/business/lazarus/la-fi-lazarus-united-low-priority-passenger-20170412-story.html

This video should be viral. Really.

I’m back. Finally finished my taxes. Whew! So now I can focus on the good stuff which is getting this country back on track. Believe it or not, today, the good stuff comes from CSPAN. The messenger is Senator Marco Rubio.

This video shows the path to repairing our current dilemma – gridlock. There is no way to fix problems if our only option is to force our way on to others. Right now, in America, the political system is set up for just that, forced compliance with whoever has the reins at the moment. It’s not fair for Democrats or Republicans to cram their agenda through the legislature, the courts or the executive branch. Most people, when their party is out of office, hate this very phenomenon.

It is also part of what led us to the results of the last vote in November. Too avoid the gridlock of a Republican congress and a Democratic President, the country (of course, for more reasons that just this) got the Outsider. This gridlock occurs because the parties are in a not-what-you-want mode. Not anything. Ever.

Americans are hoping to be done with gridlock but are also keenly aware the Outsider may have been a huge mistake as we watch the destruction of all that has been created over the last two and a half centuries.  Nervous people are very aware our country may be in danger of decline or dissolution causing sleepless nights and major distractions (electronics mostly) during daylight hours. We need the answer of how to get out of the gridlock and it has nothing to do with singular control in politics and everything to do with people.

Someone is going to have to change the gridlock. Will it be Rubio? McCain? Graham? These are the only Republicans so far to show any signs of willingness to talk across the aisle or even criticize their own party. In today’s world, it will have to be a Republican because they are in charge and will need to set the new world in motion. It doesn’t seem we have any such brave souls yet, but I have faith in you to communicate what you want to your representatives. Only power hungry, corporate owned, we-don’t-care-about-you politicians, will be against this idea in the long run, if we are clear it’s what we want. Say I’m a dreamer, but I’m not the only one. It’s true most politicians fit the above description, so we need to look to fresh faces and give them new marching orders.

Along with the protests, marches and phone calls, send this most important message:   Figure out how to work with the other side.

There is only one way out. We have to talk to each other. We have to re-enter some uncomfortable words back into our vocabulary. Words like listening, compromise and negotiation. We need to explore new ideas, stop worrying about which political party gets credit and who is against who.

Take the Department of Education for example. There have been times when teachers complained the Feds had too much control of their classrooms. Cleaning out this department may go a long way to improving how school districts have control to handle their specific problems. On the other hand, if you are just dismantling and destroying, we have a major problem with the basic tenets of the American system. There must be discussion, exchange of ideas and the creation of a plan that brings in all sides.

What is the answer here? Conversation. Open, honest, all ideas on the table, discussion. Public debate on the pros and cons. Watching politicians work together. I know, you think I’ve had something really good for lunch, but this is the only direction that makes sense. The focus must change from my way to our way.

Want to have a functioning healthcare plan for Americans? Here’s the three step process:

  1. Get an idea, a plan and a draft together of needed changes and potential solutions
  2. Tell other pertinent people about your draft
  3. Discuss the differences between your draft and the other drafts to create a plan that uses the best parts of everyone’s draft.

Then we give it a try, see what works and what doesn’t, then get together again to improve the plan. Easy Peasy. But only if we demand this of ourselves and our congresspeople. We must vote in people who will do this. It doesn’t really matter if they are Democratic or Republican ideas because ultimately they are just plans to solve American problems.

Start a conversation with your friends about how to ultimately change the political climate in this country, by being willing to listen, learn and work together. Look for “others” that are open to conversation. And share this video with everyone. Ask your friends – how can we make this happen?

Compromise is only a problem if your team has to WIN at all costs.  But then we all lose. Think about it.